Cinta yg berlandaskan nafsu

One of the worst love to own, is one that berlandaskan nafsu.
Nafsu for money..to have more than what you have now.
Something that will feed our so-called-wants momentary. but disastrous in the long run.
nafsu comes in all kinds of form.

i remember watching Wardina Safiyyah (a well-know TV presenter) talk on youtube.
its about cinta..or was it abt hijab. nevertheless she did mentioned "..klk seorg lelaki itu menyintai awk, dia tak akan sentuh awk. malah dia akan ajak awk bernikah dgn dia. jumpe ibu bapa awk.."
she said it with much conviction! and by the looks u can tell how much she stresses on how ladies should have self respect. =).
i shall provide the link on my later entry k. insyaAllah! follow her twitter (same name for her twitter a/c)
i tink she is one of the good motivators. Simple, beautiful talk. Not the nagging sort, she just loves to emphasise on her beliefs :)

something to share. a doa for those muslimah who are seeking for true love. and those who are not (yet), this doa is good too..invest on doa. to reap future gains :) insyaAllah!

*Ya Allah, jika aku jatuh cinta
Cintakanlah aku pada seseorang yg melabuhkan cintanya padaMu
Agar tambah kekuatanku untuk menyintaimu*

p/s: menambah kekuatan bukan bermaksud memaksa sang kekasih into doing good deed w/o her knowing the asas on it.
e.g menyuruh sang kekasih/ isteri utk sholat tahajjud, tetapi 1) no explaination given why is it supposed to be done. 2) apa bacaan nya (with meaning) (w/o understanding, whats the point of reciting it in arab. kluar dari mulut tapi bkn dari hati)

Note: again this is just a reminder to self.
no intention of hurting/ bringing anyone dwn.