Just a thought on: Being Compared

Comparing oneself with another.
is that considered good?
whats the healthy "qouta"?
is there any to begin with?

personally, i tink comparison is healthy..when..its being done by your ownself.
main motive, not to pull you down. but to make you realize that a)there's a lot of room for improvement for you. you can do as well as the other b) there must be something that you are not doing right c) there's someone who is obviously will be better than you in one area or another.

comparison should not be used to a) ridicule the other b) being spiteful c) seek for sympathy in the most unpresentable way.

question: to begin with, do we have the right to compare someone else with another? and "broadcast" it?
ohh well, i tink it will again its based on our own nawaitu.

For us who has been compared, no doubt it hurts! terribly! and the facts were literally thrown on your face (what the fish!)
we can always treat it as a constructive comparison.
btw, we have the right to hate the behaviour of the person. and not the person.
if the behaviour still persists on....do it my way. ignore and walk-away.
=)